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  <summary>Zimun for Sheva Berakhot, pages 1096-1097, with pointed Hebrew, English, and transliteration.</summary>
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      <nusach>Sepharad</nusach>
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      <slug>1196-1197-1096-1097-marriage-service-zimun-for-sheva-berakhot</slug>
      <section>Marriage Service</section>
      <topic>Zimun for Sheva Berakhot</topic>
      <printPages>1096-1097</printPages>
      <pdfPages>1196-1197</pdfPages>
      <header>
        <section>
          <hebrew>סדר קידושין ונישואין</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>SE|der ki|du|SHIN ve|ni|su-IN</israeli>
            <orthographic>SE|dher qid|du|SHIN ve|niś|śu|ʾIN</orthographic>
            <sephardic>SE|der qid|du|SHIN ve|nis|su|IN</sephardic>
            <chabad>SEI|der ki|du|SHIN v&apos;ni|su-IN</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>MARRIAGE SERVICE</english>
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        <topic>
          <hebrew>זימון לסעודת שבע ברכות</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>zi|MUN lis|u|DAT SHE|va b&apos;ra|CHOT</israeli>
            <orthographic>zi|MUN lis|ʿu|DHATH SHE|vaʿ be|ra|KHOTH</orthographic>
            <sephardic>zi|MUN lis|ʿu|DAT SHE|vaʿ be|ra|KHOT</sephardic>
            <chabad>zi|MUN lis|u|DAS SHE|va b&apos;ro|CHOYS</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>ZIMMUN FOR SHEVA BERAKHOT</english>
        </topic>
        <printPages>1096-1097</printPages>
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      <body>
        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>The bride and bridegroom both drink from the wine.</text>
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        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>The bridegroom breaks a glass in memory of the destruction of the Temple. Some say the following beforehand:</text>
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          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>אִם־אֶשְׁכָּחֵךְ יְרוּשָׁלִָם, תִּשְׁכַּח יְמִינִי: תִּדְבַּק־לְשׁוֹנִי לְחִכִּי אִם־לֹא אֶזְכְּרֵכִי,
אִם־לֹא אַעֲלֶה אֶת־יְרוּשָׁלִָם עַל רֹאשׁ שִׂמְחָתִי:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>im-esh|ka|CHECH ye|ru|sha|LAM, tish|KACH ye|mi|NI: tid|bak-le|sho|NI le|chi|KI im-lo ez|ke|re|CHI,
im-lo a-a|LEH et-ye|ru|sha|LAM al rosh sim|cha|TI:</israeli>
            <orthographic>ʾim-ʾesh|ka|ḥEKH ye|ru|sha|LAM, tish|KAḥ ye|mi|NI: tidh|baq-le|sho|NI le|ḥik|KI ʾim-loʾ ʾez|ke|re|KHI,
ʾim-loʾ ʾa|ʿa|LEH ʾeth-ye|ru|sha|LAM ʿal roʾsh śim|ḥa|THI:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>im-esh|ka|ḥEKH ye|ru|sha|LAM, tish|KAḥ ye|mi|NI: tid|baq-le|sho|NI le|ḥik|KI im-lo ez|ke|re|KHI,
im-lo a|ʿa|LEH et-ye|ru|sha|LAM ʿal rosh sim|ḥa|TI:</sephardic>
            <chabad>im-esh|ko|CHEICH y&apos;ru|sho|LOM, tish|KACH y&apos;mi|NI: tid|bak-l&apos;shoy|NI l&apos;chi|KI im-loy ez|k&apos;rei|CHI,
im-loy a-a|LEH es-y&apos;ru|sho|LOM al roysh sim|cho|SI:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>If I forget you, O Jerusalem, may my right hand forget its skill. May my tongue cling to the roof of my mouth if I do not remember you, if I do not set Jerusalem above my highest joy.</english>
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            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Ps. 137</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
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          <type>heading</type>
          <hebrew>זימון לסעודת שבע ברכות</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>zi|MUN lis|u|DAT SHE|va b&apos;ra|CHOT</israeli>
            <orthographic>zi|MUN lis|ʿu|DHATH SHE|vaʿ be|ra|KHOTH</orthographic>
            <sephardic>zi|MUN lis|ʿu|DAT SHE|vaʿ be|ra|KHOT</sephardic>
            <chabad>zi|MUN lis|u|DAS SHE|va b&apos;ro|CHOYS</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>ZIMMUN AFTER A WEDDING OR SHEVA BERAKHOT FEAST</english>
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        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>The leader takes a cup of wine in his hand and says:</text>
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        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>רַבּוֹתַי, נְבָרֵךְ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ra|bo|TAI, ne|va|RECH.</israeli>
            <orthographic>rab|bo|THAI, ne|va|REKH.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>rab|bo|TAI, ne|va|REKH.</sephardic>
            <chabad>ra|boy|SAI, n&apos;vo|REICH.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Gentlemen, let us say grace.</english>
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        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>יְהִי שֵׁם יְהוָה מְבֹרָךְ מֵעַתָּה וְעַד־עוֹלָם:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RACH me-a|TAH ve-ad-o|LAM:</israeli>
            <orthographic>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RAKH me|ʿat|TAH ve|ʿadh-ʿo|LAM:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RAKH me|ʿat|TAH ve|ʿad-ʿo|LAM:</sephardic>
            <chabad>y&apos;HI sheim a|do|NOY m&apos;voy|ROCH mei-a|TOH v&apos;ad-oy|LOM:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>May the name of the LORD be blessed from now and for ever.</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Ps. 113</text>
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        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>יְהִי שֵׁם יְהוָה מְבֹרָךְ מֵעַתָּה וְעַד־עוֹלָם:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RACH me-a|TAH ve-ad-o|LAM:</israeli>
            <orthographic>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RAKH me|ʿat|TAH ve|ʿadh-ʿo|LAM:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ye|HI shem a|do|NAI me|vo|RAKH me|ʿat|TAH ve|ʿad-ʿo|LAM:</sephardic>
            <chabad>y&apos;HI sheim a|do|NOY m&apos;voy|ROCH mei-a|TOH v&apos;ad-oy|LOM:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>May the name of the LORD be blessed from now and for ever.</english>
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          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>דְּוַי הָסֵר וְגַם חָרוֹן
וְאָז אִלֵּם בְּשִׁיר יָרוֹן.
נַחֵנוּ בְּמַעְגְּלֵי צֶדֶק
שְׁעֵה בִּרְכַּת בְּנֵי אַהֲרֹן.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>d&apos;VAI ha|SER ve|GAM cha|RON
ve-AZ i|LEM b&apos;SHIR ya|RON.
na|CHE|nu b&apos;ma|ge|LEI TZE|dek
she-EH bir|KAT b&apos;NEI a|ha|RON.</israeli>
            <orthographic>de|VAI ha|SER ve|GHAM ḥa|RON
ve|ʾAZ ʾil|LEM be|SHIR ya|RON.
na|ḥE|nu be|maʿ|ge|LE TZE|dheq
she|ʿEH bir|KATH be|NE ʾa|ha|RON.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>de|VAI ha|SER ve|GAM ḥa|RON
ve|AZ il|LEM be|SHIR ya|RON.
na|ḥE|nu be|maʿ|ge|LE TZE|deq
she|ʿEH bir|KAT be|NE a|ha|RON.</sephardic>
            <chabad>d&apos;VAI ho|SEIR v&apos;GAM cho|ROYN
v&apos;OZ i|LEIM b&apos;SHIR yo|ROYN.
na|CHEI|nu b&apos;ma|g&apos;LEI TZE|dek
sh&apos;EIH bir|KAS b&apos;NEI a|ha|ROYN.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Banish grief and anger. Let even the mute celebrate in song. Guide us in the paths of righteousness. Hear the blessing of the children of Aaron.</english>
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          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>Add the appropriate words in parentheses:</text>
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          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>בִּרְשׁוּת (אָבִי מוֹרִי / אִמִּי מוֹרָתִי / כֹּהֲנִים / מוֹרֵנוּ הָרַב /
בַּעַל הַבַּיִת הַזֶּה / בַּעֲלַת הַבַּיִת הַזֶּה) מָרָן וְרַבָּנָן וְרַבּוֹתַי
נְבָרֵךְ אֱלֹהֵינוּ שֶׁהַשִּׂמְחָה בִמְעוֹנוֹ, שֶׁאָכַלְנוּ מִשֶּׁלּוֹ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>bir|SHUT (a|VI mo|RI / i|MI mo|ra|TI / ko|ha|NIM / mo|RE|nu ha|RAV /
ba-AL ha|ba|YIT ha|ZEH / ba-a|LAT ha|ba|YIT ha|ZEH) ma|RAN ve|ra|ba|NAN ve|ra|bo|TAI
ne|va|RECH e|lo|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHAH vim|o|NO, she-a|chal|NU mi|she|LO.</israeli>
            <orthographic>bir|SHUTH (ʾa|VI mo|RI / ʾim|MI mo|ra|THI / ko|ha|NIM / mo|RE|nu ha|RAV /
ba|ʿAL hab|ba|YITH haz|ZEH / ba|ʿa|LATH hab|ba|YITH haz|ZEH) ma|RAN ve|rab|ba|NAN ve|rab|bo|THAI
ne|va|REKH ʾe|lo|HE|nu she|haś|śim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|ʾa|khal|NU mis|shel|LO.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>bir|SHUT (a|VI mo|RI / im|MI mo|ra|TI / ko|ha|NIM / mo|RE|nu ha|RAV /
ba|ʿAL hab|ba|YIT haz|ZEH / ba|ʿa|LAT hab|ba|YIT haz|ZEH) ma|RAN ve|rab|ba|NAN ve|rab|bo|TAI
ne|va|REKH e|lo|HE|nu she|has|sim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|a|khal|NU mis|shel|LO.</sephardic>
            <chabad>bir|SHUS (o|VI moy|RI / i|MI moy|ro|SI / koy|ha|NIM / moy|REI|nu ho|RAV /
ba-AL ha|ba|YIS ha|ZEH / ba-a|LAS ha|ba|YIS ha|ZEH) mo|RON v&apos;ra|bo|NON v&apos;ra|boy|SAI
n&apos;vo|REICH e|loy|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHOH vim|oy|NOY, she-o|chal|NU mi|she|LOY.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>With your permission, (my father and teacher / my mother and teacher / the Kohanim present / our teacher the Rabbi / the master of this house / the mistress of this house) my masters and teachers, let us bless our God, in whose dwelling place is joy, from whose food we have eaten.</english>
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          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>בָּרוּךְ אֱלֹהֵינוּ שֶׁהַשִּׂמְחָה בִמְעוֹנוֹ, שֶׁאָכַלְנוּ מִשֶּׁלּוֹ וּבְטוּבוֹ חָיִינוּ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ba|RUCH e|lo|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHAH vim|o|NO, she-a|chal|NU mi|she|LO uv|tu|VO cha|yi|NU.</israeli>
            <orthographic>ba|RUKH ʾe|lo|HE|nu she|haś|śim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|ʾa|khal|NU mis|shel|LO u|ve|ṭu|VO ḥa|yi|NU.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ba|RUKH e|lo|HE|nu she|has|sim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|a|khal|NU mis|shel|LO u|ve|tu|VO ḥa|yi|NU.</sephardic>
            <chabad>bo|RUCH e|loy|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHOH vim|oy|NOY, she-o|chal|NU mi|she|LOY uv&apos;|tu|VOY cho|yi|NU.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Blessed be our God in whose dwelling place is joy, from whose food we have eaten, and by whose goodness we live.</english>
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          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>בָּרוּךְ אֱלֹהֵינוּ שֶׁהַשִּׂמְחָה בִמְעוֹנוֹ, שֶׁאָכַלְנוּ מִשֶּׁלּוֹ וּבְטוּבוֹ חָיִינוּ.
בָּרוּךְ הוּא וּבָרוּךְ שְׁמוֹ.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>ba|RUCH e|lo|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHAH vim|o|NO, she-a|chal|NU mi|she|LO uv|tu|VO cha|yi|NU.
ba|RUCH hu u|va|RUCH sh&apos;MO.</israeli>
            <orthographic>ba|RUKH ʾe|lo|HE|nu she|haś|śim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|ʾa|khal|NU mis|shel|LO u|ve|ṭu|VO ḥa|yi|NU.
ba|RUKH huʾ u|va|RUKH she|MO.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ba|RUKH e|lo|HE|nu she|has|sim|ḥAH vim|ʿo|NO, she|a|khal|NU mis|shel|LO u|ve|tu|VO ḥa|yi|NU.
ba|RUKH hu u|va|RUKH she|MO.</sephardic>
            <chabad>bo|RUCH e|loy|HEI|nu she|ha|sim|CHOH vim|oy|NOY, she-o|chal|NU mi|she|LOY uv&apos;|tu|VOY cho|yi|NU.
bo|RUCH hu u|vo|RUCH sh&apos;MOY.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Blessed be our God in whose dwelling place is joy, from whose food we have eaten, and by whose goodness we live. Blessed be He, and blessed be His name.</english>
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          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>Continue with Birkat HaMazon on page 1032, at the end of which say the Sheva Berakhot (on previous page) over a cup of wine, beginning with the second blessing, “who has created all,” and ending with the first blessing, that over the wine.</text>
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          <type>Commentary</type>
          <text>GRACE AFTER THE WEDDING FEAST</text>
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          <type>Commentary</type>
          <text>The special invocation, with its phrase “in whose dwelling place is joy,” is mentioned in the Talmud (Ketubot 8a). דְּוַי הָסֵר וְגַם חָרוֹן Banish grief and anger: a poem written by the tenth-century linguist and poet, Dunash ben Labrat. The initial letters of the four phrases spell out his name.</text>
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          <type>Commentary</type>
          <text>BREAKING THE GLASS</text>
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          <type>Commentary</type>
          <text>An ancient custom, reminding us that while the Temple remains unbuilt, our joy cannot be complete. It has become a custom to preface this by reciting the verse from Psalm 137, “If I forget you, O Jerusalem,” said by the exiles in Babylon after the destruction of the First Temple.</text>
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