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  <summary>Funeral Service, pages 1106-1107, with pointed Hebrew, English, and transliteration.</summary>
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      <title>Koren Shalem Siddur</title>
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      <slug>1206-1207-1106-1107-funeral-service-funeral-service</slug>
      <section>Funeral Service</section>
      <topic>Funeral Service</topic>
      <printPages>1106-1107</printPages>
      <pdfPages>1206-1207</pdfPages>
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        <section>
          <hebrew>לוויית המת</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>liv|YAT ha|MET</israeli>
            <orthographic>liv|YATH ham|METH</orthographic>
            <sephardic>liv|YAT ham|MET</sephardic>
            <chabad>liv|YAS ha|MEIS</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Funeral Service</english>
        </section>
        <topic>
          <hebrew>לוויית המת</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>liv|YAT ha|MET</israeli>
            <orthographic>liv|YATH ham|METH</orthographic>
            <sephardic>liv|YAT ham|MET</sephardic>
            <chabad>liv|YAS ha|MEIS</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Funeral Service</english>
        </topic>
        <printPages>1106-1107</printPages>
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        <body>
          <type>heading</type>
          <hebrew>לוויית המת</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>liv|YAT ha|MET</israeli>
            <orthographic>liv|YATH ham|METH</orthographic>
            <sephardic>liv|YAT ham|MET</sephardic>
            <chabad>liv|YAS ha|MEIS</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>FUNERAL SERVICE</english>
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        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>עֲקַבְיָא בֶּן מַהֲלַלְאֵל אוֹמֵר: הִסְתַּכֵּל בִּשְׁלֹשָׁה דְּבָרִים, וְאֵין אַתָּה
בָּא לִידֵי עֲבֵרָה. דַּע מֵאַיִן בָּאתָ, וּלְאָן אַתָּה הוֹלֵךְ, וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה
עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן. מֵאַיִן בָּאתָ, מִטִּפָּה סְרוּחָה. וּלְאָן אַתָּה
הוֹלֵךְ, לְמָקוֹם עָפָר, רִמָּה וְתוֹלֵעָה. וְלִפְנֵי מִי אַתָּה עָתִיד לִתֵּן דִּין
וְחֶשְׁבּוֹן, לִפְנֵי מֶלֶךְ מַלְכֵי הַמְּלָכִים, הַקָּדוֹשׁ בָּרוּךְ הוּא.</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>a|kav|YA ben ma|ha|lal|EL o|MER: his|ta|KEL bish|lo|SHAH d&apos;va|RIM, ve-EIN a|TAH
ba li|DEI a|ve|RAH. da me-a|YIN ba|TA, u|le-AN a|TAH ho|LECH, ve|lif|NEI mi a|TAH
a|TID li|TEN din ve|chesh|BON. me-a|YIN ba|TA, mi|ti|PAH s&apos;ru|CHAH. u|le-AN a|TAH
ho|LECH, le|ma|KOM a|FAR, ri|MAH ve|to|le-AH. ve|lif|NEI mi a|TAH a|TID li|TEN din
ve|chesh|BON, lif|NEI ME|lech mal|CHEI ha|me|la|CHIM, ha|ka|DOSH ba|RUCH hu.</israeli>
            <orthographic>ʿa|qav|YAʾ ben ma|ha|lal|ʾEL ʾo|MER: his|tak|KEL bish|lo|SHAH de|va|RIM, ve|ʾEN ʾat|TAH
baʾ li|DHE ʿa|ve|RAH. daʿ me|ʾa|YIN baʾ|THA, u|le|ʾAN ʾat|TAH ho|LEKH, ve|lif|NE mi ʾat|TAH
ʿa|THIDH lit|TEN din ve|ḥesh|BON. me|ʾa|YIN baʾ|THA, miṭ|ṭip|PAH se|ru|ḥAH. u|le|ʾAN ʾat|TAH
ho|LEKH, le|ma|QOM ʿa|FAR, rim|MAH ve|tho|le|ʿAH. ve|lif|NE mi ʾat|TAH ʿa|THIDH lit|TEN din
ve|ḥesh|BON, lif|NE ME|lekh mal|KHE ham|me|la|KHIM, haq|qa|DHOSH ba|RUKH huʾ.</orthographic>
            <sephardic>ʿa|qav|YA ben ma|ha|lal|EL o|MER: his|tak|KEL bish|lo|SHAH de|va|RIM, ve|EN at|TAH
ba li|DE ʿa|ve|RAH. daʿ me|a|YIN ba|TA, u|le|AN at|TAH ho|LEKH, ve|lif|NE mi at|TAH
ʿa|TID lit|TEN din ve|ḥesh|BON. me|a|YIN ba|TA, mit|tip|PAH se|ru|ḥAH. u|le|AN at|TAH
ho|LEKH, le|ma|QOM ʿa|FAR, rim|MAH ve|to|le|ʿAH. ve|lif|NE mi at|TAH ʿa|TID lit|TEN din
ve|ḥesh|BON, lif|NE ME|lekh mal|KHE ham|me|la|KHIM, haq|qa|DOSH ba|RUKH hu.</sephardic>
            <chabad>a|kav|YO ben ma|ha|lal|EIL oy|MEIR: his|ta|KEIL bish|loy|SHOH d&apos;vo|RIM, v&apos;EIN a|TOH
bo li|DEI a|vei|ROH. da mei-a|YIN bo|SO, ul&apos;-ON a|TOH hoy|LEICH, v&apos;lif|NEI mi a|TOH
o|SID li|TEIN din v&apos;chesh|BOYN. mei-a|YIN bo|SO, mi|ti|POH s&apos;ru|CHOH. ul&apos;-ON a|TOH
hoy|LEICH, l&apos;mo|KOYM o|FOR, ri|MOH v&apos;soy|lei-OH. v&apos;lif|NEI mi a|TOH o|SID li|TEIN din
v&apos;chesh|BOYN, lif|NEI ME|lech mal|CHEI ham&apos;|lo|CHIM, ha|ko|DOYSH bo|RUCH hu.</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>Akavya ben Mahalalel said: Reflect on three things and you will avoid transgression: Know where you came from, where you are going, and before whom you will have to give an account and reckoning. “Where you came from” – from a putrid drop. “Where you are going” – to a place of dust, worms and maggots. “And before whom you will have to give an account and reckoning” – before the Supreme King of kings, the Holy One, blessed be He.</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Mishna Avot 3:1</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
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        <body>
          <type>Instructions</type>
          <text>While on the way to the grave, say:</text>
        </body>
        <body>
          <type>Passage</type>
          <hebrew>יֹשֵׁב בְּסֵתֶר עֶלְיוֹן, בְּצֵל שַׁדַּי יִתְלוֹנָן: אֹמַר לַיהוָה מַחְסִי וּמְצוּדָתִי,
אֱלֹהַי אֶבְטַח־בּוֹ: כִּי הוּא יַצִּילְךָ מִפַּח יָקוּשׁ, מִדֶּבֶר הַוּוֹת: בְּאֶבְרָתוֹ
יָסֶךְ לָךְ, וְתַחַת־כְּנָפָיו תֶּחְסֶה, צִנָּה וְסֹחֵרָה אֲמִתּוֹ: לֹא־תִירָא מִפַּחַד
לָיְלָה, מֵחֵץ יָעוּף יוֹמָם: מִדֶּבֶר בָּאֹפֶל יַהֲלֹךְ, מִקֶּטֶב יָשׁוּד צָהֳרָיִם:
יִפֹּל מִצִּדְּךָ אֶלֶף, וּרְבָבָה מִימִינֶךָ, אֵלֶיךָ לֹא יִגָּשׁ: רַק בְּעֵינֶיךָ תַבִּיט,
וְשִׁלֻּמַת רְשָׁעִים תִּרְאֶה: כִּי־אַתָּה יְהוָה מַחְסִי, עֶלְיוֹן שַׂמְתָּ מְעוֹנֶךָ:
לֹא־תְאֻנֶּה אֵלֶיךָ רָעָה, וְנֶגַע לֹא־יִקְרַב בְּאָהֳלֶךָ: כִּי מַלְאָכָיו יְצַוֶּה־
לָּךְ, לִשְׁמָרְךָ בְּכָל־דְּרָכֶיךָ: עַל־כַּפַּיִם יִשָּׂאוּנְךָ, פֶּן־תִּגֹּף בָּאֶבֶן רַגְלֶךָ:
עַל־שַׁחַל וָפֶתֶן תִּדְרֹךְ, תִּרְמֹס כְּפִיר וְתַנִּין: כִּי בִי חָשַׁק וַאֲפַלְּטֵהוּ,
אֲשַׂגְּבֵהוּ כִּי־יָדַע שְׁמִי: יִקְרָאֵנִי וְאֶעֱנֵהוּ, עִמּוֹ אָנֹכִי בְצָרָה, אֲחַלְּצֵהוּ
וַאֲכַבְּדֵהוּ: אֹרֶךְ יָמִים אַשְׂבִּיעֵהוּ, וְאַרְאֵהוּ בִּישׁוּעָתִי:
אֹרֶךְ יָמִים אַשְׂבִּיעֵהוּ, וְאַרְאֵהוּ בִּישׁוּעָתִי:</hebrew>
          <transliteration>
            <israeli>yo|SHEV b&apos;SE|ter el|YON, b&apos;TZEL shad|DAI yit|lo|NAN: o|MAR la|do|NAI mach|SI u|me|tzu|da|TI,
e|lo|HAI ev|tach-bo: ki hu ya|tzi|le|CHA mi|PACH ya|KUSH, mi|DE|ver ha|VOT: be-ev|ra|TO
ya|SECH lach, ve|ta|chat-k&apos;na|FAV tech|SEH, tzi|NAH ve|so|che|RAH a|mi|TO: lo-ti|RA mi|pa|CHAD
lay|LAH, me|CHETZ ya|UF yo|MAM: mi|DE|ver ba-O|fel ya|ha|LOCH, mi|KE|tev ya|SHUD tzo|ho|RA|yim:
yi|POL mi|tzid|CHA E|lef, u|re|va|VAH mi|mi|NE|cha, e|LE|cha lo yi|GASH: rak be-ei|NE|cha ta|BIT,
ve|shi|lu|MAT re|sha-IM tir|EH: ki-a|TAH a|do|NAI mach|SI, el|YON SAM|ta me-o|NE|cha:
lo-te-u|NEH e|LE|cha ra-AH, ve|NE|ga lo-yik|RAV be-o|ho|LE|cha: ki mal|a|CHAV ye|tza|veh-
lach, lish|ma|re|CHA b&apos;chol-d&apos;ra|CHE|cha: al-ka|pa|YIM yi|sa|u|ne|CHA, pen-ti|GOF ba-E|ven rag|LE|cha:
al-sha|CHAL va|fe|TEN tid|ROCH, tir|MOS k&apos;FIR ve|ta|NIN: ki vi cha|SHAK va-a|fa|le|te|HU,
a|sag|ve|HU ki-ya|DA sh&apos;MI: yik|ra-e|NI ve-e-e|ne|HU, i|MO a|no|CHI v&apos;tza|RAH, a|cha|le|tze|HU
va-a|chab|de|HU: O|rech ya|MIM as|bi-e|HU, ve-ar|e|HU bi|shu-a|TI:
O|rech ya|MIM as|bi-e|HU, ve-ar|e|HU bi|shu-a|TI:</israeli>
            <orthographic>yo|SHEV be|SE|ther ʿel|YON, be|TZEL shad|DAI yith|lo|NAN: ʾo|MAR la|do|NAI maḥ|SI u|me|tzu|dha|THI,
ʾe|lo|HAI ʾev|ṭaḥ-bo: ki huʾ yat|tzi|le|KHA mip|PAḥ ya|QUSH, mid|DE|ver hav|VOTH: be|ʾev|ra|THO
ya|SEKH lakh, ve|tha|ḥath-ke|na|FAV teḥ|SEH, tzin|NAH ve|so|ḥe|RAH ʾa|mit|TO: loʾ-thi|RAʾ mip|pa|ḥADH
la|ye|LAH, me|ḥETZ ya|ʿUF yo|MAM: mid|DE|ver ba|ʾO|fel ya|ha|LOKH, miq|QE|ṭev ya|SHUDH tzo|ho|RA|yim:
yip|POL mit|tzid|de|KHA ʾE|lef, u|re|va|VAH mi|mi|NE|kha, ʾe|LE|kha loʾ yig|GASH: raq be|ʿe|NE|kha thab|BIṭ,
ve|shil|lu|MATH re|sha|ʿIM tir|ʾEH: ki-ʾat|TAH a|do|NAI maḥ|SI, ʿel|YON śAM|ta me|ʿo|NE|kha:
loʾ-the|ʾun|NEH ʾe|LE|kha ra|ʿAH, ve|NE|ghaʿ loʾ-yiq|RAV be|ʾo|ho|LE|kha: ki mal|ʾa|KHAV ye|tzav|veh-
lakh, lish|ma|re|KHA be|khol-de|ra|KHE|kha: ʿal-kap|pa|YIM yiś|śa|ʾu|ne|KHA, pen-tig|GOF ba|ʾE|ven ragh|LE|kha:
ʿal-sha|ḥAL va|fe|THEN tidh|ROKH, tir|MOS ke|FIR ve|than|NIN: ki vi ḥa|SHAQ va|ʾa|fal|le|ṭe|HU,
ʾa|śag|ge|ve|HU ki-ya|DHAʿ she|MI: yiq|ra|ʾe|NI ve|ʾe|ʿe|ne|HU, ʿim|MO ʾa|no|KHI ve|tza|RAH, ʾa|ḥal|le|tze|HU
va|ʾa|khab|be|dhe|HU: ʾO|rekh ya|MIM ʾaś|bi|ʿe|HU, ve|ʾar|ʾe|HU bi|shu|ʿa|THI:
ʾO|rekh ya|MIM ʾaś|bi|ʿe|HU, ve|ʾar|ʾe|HU bi|shu|ʿa|THI:</orthographic>
            <sephardic>yo|SHEV be|SE|ter ʿel|YON, be|TZEL shad|DAI yit|lo|NAN: o|MAR la|do|NAI maḥ|SI u|me|tzu|da|TI,
e|lo|HAI ev|taḥ-bo: ki hu yat|tzi|le|KHA mip|PAḥ ya|QUSH, mid|DE|ver hav|VOT: be|ev|ra|TO
ya|SEKH lakh, ve|ta|ḥat-ke|na|FAV teḥ|SEH, tzin|NAH ve|so|ḥe|RAH a|mit|TO: lo-ti|RA mip|pa|ḥAD
la|ye|LAH, me|ḥETZ ya|ʿUF yo|MAM: mid|DE|ver ba|O|fel ya|ha|LOKH, miq|QE|tev ya|SHUD tzo|ho|RA|yim:
yip|POL mit|tzid|de|KHA E|lef, u|re|va|VAH mi|mi|NE|kha, e|LE|kha lo yig|GASH: raq be|ʿe|NE|kha tab|BIT,
ve|shil|lu|MAT re|sha|ʿIM tir|EH: ki-at|TAH a|do|NAI maḥ|SI, ʿel|YON SAM|ta me|ʿo|NE|kha:
lo-te|un|NEH e|LE|kha ra|ʿAH, ve|NE|gaʿ lo-yiq|RAV be|o|ho|LE|kha: ki mal|a|KHAV ye|tzav|veh-
lakh, lish|ma|re|KHA be|khol-de|ra|KHE|kha: ʿal-kap|pa|YIM yis|sa|u|ne|KHA, pen-tig|GOF ba|E|ven rag|LE|kha:
ʿal-sha|ḥAL va|fe|TEN tid|ROKH, tir|MOS ke|FIR ve|tan|NIN: ki vi ḥa|SHAQ va|a|fal|le|te|HU,
a|sag|ge|ve|HU ki-ya|DAʿ she|MI: yiq|ra|e|NI ve|e|ʿe|ne|HU, ʿim|MO a|no|KHI ve|tza|RAH, a|ḥal|le|tze|HU
va|a|khab|be|de|HU: O|rekh ya|MIM as|bi|ʿe|HU, ve|ar|e|HU bi|shu|ʿa|TI:
O|rekh ya|MIM as|bi|ʿe|HU, ve|ar|e|HU bi|shu|ʿa|TI:</sephardic>
            <chabad>yoy|SHEIV b&apos;SEI|ser el|YOYN, b&apos;TZEIL shad|DOY yis|loy|NON: oy|MAR la|do|NOY mach|SI um&apos;|tzu|do|SI,
e|loy|HAI ev|tach-boy: ki hu ya|tzil&apos;|CHO mi|PACH yo|KUSH, mi|DE|ver ha|VOYS: b&apos;ev|ro|SOY
yo|SECH loch, v&apos;sa|chas-k&apos;no|FOV tech|SEH, tzi|NOH v&apos;soy|chei|ROH a|mi|TOY: loy-si|RO mi|pa|CHAD
loy&apos;|LOH, mei|CHEITZ yo|UF yoy|MOM: mi|DE|ver bo-OY|fel ya|ha|LOYCH, mi|KE|tev yo|SHUD tzo|ho|RO|yim:
yi|POYL mi|tzid&apos;|CHO E|lef, ur&apos;|vo|VOH mi|mi|NE|cho, ei|LE|cho loy yi|GOSH: rak b&apos;ei|NE|cho sa|BIT,
v&apos;shi|lu|MAS r&apos;sho-IM tir|EH: ki-a|TOH a|do|NOY mach|SI, el|YOYN SAM|to m&apos;oy|NE|cho:
loy-s&apos;u|NEH ei|LE|cho ro-OH, v&apos;NE|ga loy-yik|RAV b&apos;o|ho|LE|cho: ki mal|o|CHOV y&apos;tza|veh-
loch, lish|mor&apos;|CHO b&apos;chol-d&apos;ro|CHE|cho: al-ka|pa|YIM yi|so|un&apos;|CHO, pen-ti|GOYF bo-E|ven rag|LE|cho:
al-sha|CHAL vo|fe|SEN tid|ROYCH, tir|MOYS k&apos;FIR v&apos;sa|NIN: ki vi cho|SHAK va-a|fal&apos;|tei|HU,
a|sag&apos;|vei|HU ki-yo|DA sh&apos;MI: yik|ro-ei|NI v&apos;e-e|nei|HU, i|MOY o|noy|CHI v&apos;tzo|ROH, a|chal&apos;|tzei|HU
va-a|chab&apos;|dei|HU: OY|rech yo|MIM as|bi-ei|HU, v&apos;ar|ei|HU bi|shu-o|SI:
OY|rech yo|MIM as|bi-ei|HU, v&apos;ar|ei|HU bi|shu-o|SI:</chabad>
          </transliteration>
          <english>He who lives in the shelter of the Most High dwells in the shadow of the Almighty. I say of the LORD, my Refuge and Stronghold, my God in whom I trust, that He will save you from the fowler&apos;s snare and the deadly pestilence. With His pinions He will cover you, and beneath His wings you will find shelter; His faithfulness is an encircling shield. You need not fear terror by night, nor the arrow that flies by day; not the pestilence that stalks in darkness, nor the plague that ravages at noon. A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you. You will only look with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked. Because you said “The LORD is my Refuge,” taking the Most High as your shelter, no harm will befall you, no plague will come near your tent, for He will command His angels about you, to guard you in all your ways. They will lift you in their hands, lest your foot stumble on a stone. You will tread on lions and vipers, you will trample on young lions and snakes. [God says] “Because he loves Me, I will rescue him; I will protect him, because he acknowledges My name. When he calls on Me, I will answer him, I will be with him in distress, I will deliver him and bring him honor. With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation. With long life I will satisfy him, and show him My salvation.”</english>
          <citations>
            <citation>
              <type>Citation</type>
              <text>Ps. 91</text>
            </citation>
          </citations>
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        <footer>
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          <text>understand why there is suffering and death, we reaffirm our faith, tried and tested though it may be, that there is an ultimate order and justice in the universe.</text>
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          <text>הַצּוּר The Rock: a symbol, taken from the Song of Moses (Deut. 32) signifying the eternity of God in the face of the transience of life.</text>
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          <text>Bereavement is doubly devastating. One who was part of our life is no longer there and our world threatens to fall apart. And we come face to face with mortality itself, the knowledge that all that lives, dies. At such times, prayer helps us make the transition from aninut, the inarticulate shock of grief, to avelut, the work of mourning and recovering faith in life (R. Joseph Soloveitchik). Tzidduk HaDin, “The Acceptance of Judgment” (on next page), is the ultimate act of humility in the face of loss. Though we cannot</text>
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